Six Rules to Make People Like you.

If you want people to like you.........

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

  If you want people to like you you have to be genuinely interested in the friendship they have to offer.  

Rule 2: Smile

  If you are a type a person with a smile you give people that do not know you comfort to have a conversation with you. When you smile people tend to attract that very well. Having a smile also tend people to perceive you.

Rule 3: Remember names

  If you don't remember peoples names it just makes you look like a rude person, unprofessional, and not serious about what you have to offer. In order to associate with others, you would have to remember what their name is. If you do not remember what their name is you would not know what to call them by and you would not be able to associate. 

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

   In order to be liked by other people you, when you talk to them you don't just want to be talking about yourself. You want the other person to be comfortable with you, make them feel like you are interested in what they are telling you and you need to be polite.  Listen to what they have to talk about. I am they would go back to you so you can listen to them more and you will end up with a friend next thing you know. 

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.

  If you want people to like you, you really do not have to try hard. When making the conversation seem interested in what they are saying people enjoy being listened too and enjoy the company. Become interested in what they are talking about. 

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely. 

  If you want people liking you, you would have to make them feel important. Not so much they start to think otherwise from you and get another intention. You can pretend someone is important to you and you are faking it. They eventually end up seeking the truth. Making a person feel important to you overall makes them feel good loved and open. They would eventually enjoy your presents and be your friend. 

Reflection:

  These six ways to people liking you are really helpful in being a good person and having many friendships. People are not always going to like you but these are somethings you can do to help you as a person who would be liked by everyone. I am committing in starting to do these things when I start meeting new people when I'm off to college. I feel like it would be very helpful when going into adulthood.